Anyone wishing to add any ornamental items in addition to cemetery bylaw permissible flowers should contact the Cemetery Board or Custodian for approval.

Please help to keep our cemetery neat and uncluttered as possible for the safety of everyone visiting or working there!!

If you don’t have a pre-printed envelope for your donation, additional ones will be made available for you to use.

We thank you for your generosity.

HST Coming 1 July!!

St. Mary’s cemetery has plenty of Full burial plots, Cremation plots, Columbarium niches.
Call 328-0918 to book your appointment.
Tour the cemetery, purchase preneed now, and gain peace of mind. You’ll also save paying the HST!
Current prices can be viewed here.

MONUMENT CLEANING

Anyone wishing to have their monuments power washed and cleaned which will remove moss and scaling, please book now. Call our custodian Brian direct at 879-5204.
Depending on size, cost for this effective service is $25 or $50 made payable to St. Mary’s Cemetery.

Anyone wishing to have their monuments power washed and cleaned which will remove moss and scaling, please contact our custodian Brian at 879-5204.

Cost for this very effective service is only $25 per monument.

Thanks to all who attended the memorial day celebration at the cemetery and after that the picnic. Here are a few pictures clicked by Annette and Pete Watson.

Thank you to the Cemetery Board Members and staff, the St. Mary’s Choir, People in charge of the music and microphone equipment. CWL for flowers, Msgr. Scott, Mary Eleanor Henley, and anyone we may have missed.

Your time and dedication is greatly appreciated.

Here are some pictures from the celebration and our parish picnic afterwards.

St. Mary’s Cemetery annual memorial service will be held this year on the 16 August at 11am.

As usual we will commemorate those that have been buried in our cemetery in the past year, by reading their names.

Please bring your lawn chairs, as we are expecting a larger attendance this year because this service will be replacing the regular 11am. mass held in the church.

The Order of Christian Funerals, published in 1990 by the Canadian Bishops, guides the Catholic community with specific rites and prayers to express consolation to those who grieve, to give thanks to God for the blessings received by and through the deceased and to ask God for mercy on all sinners. It is designed to help confront death in light of the life, suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus. “In the face of death the Church confidently proclaims that God has created each person for eternal life and that Jesus, by his death and resurrection, has broken the chains of sin and death that bound humanity.” (The Order of Christian Funerals #1)

Funerals for Catholics have three distinct parts.

The Vigil

“At the death of a Christian, whose life was begun in the waters of Baptism and strengthened at the Eucharistic table, the Church intercedes on behalf of the deceased because of its confident belief that death is not the end nor does it break the bonds forged in life.” (OCF #4)

The time immediately following death is often one of bewilderment and may involve shock or heartrending grief for the family and close friends. The ministry of the Church at this time is one of gently accompanying the mourners in their initial adjustment to the fact of death and to the sorrow this entails. “The members of the Christian community offer support to the mourners, especially by praying that the one they have lost may have eternal life.” (OCF #52)

The Vigil, which is generally held in a funeral home but may be celebrated in the home or other suitable place (OCF #83), includes a solemn reading of the Word of God and prayers for the deceased and those who mourn. This is the suitable occasion for a eulogy for sharing remembrances of the deceased.

Why a Vigil? In time of loss the family and community turn to God’s Word as the source of faith and hope, as light and life in the face of darkness and death. The prayers call on God to bring the deceased into the communion of saints. The whole ceremony is reminiscent of the Easter Vigil when, in the darkened church, we await the glorious resurrection of the Lord.

Who participates in the Vigil? “Whenever possible the family of the deceased should take part in the selection of texts and music and designation of the liturgical ministers” (OCF # 93) Members of the local parish community are also encouraged to participate as a sign of concern and support for the mourners. A priest, a deacon or, in their absence, a lay person leads the community in prayer.

The Funeral Mass

“Christians celebrate the funeral rites to offer worship, praise, and thanksgiving to God for the gift of life which has now been returned to God, the author of life and the hope of the just. The Mass, the memorial of Christ’s death and resurrection, is the principal celebration of the Christian funeral.” (OCF # 5)

When planning a Funeral Mass, there are five important points to consider.

There is to be a Funeral Mass celebrated for every deceased Catholic. The only exceptions are: if a priest is unavailable, or if the Mass is to occur between Holy Thursday and Easter Sunday or on a Sunday or on a Holy Day of Obligation. If, due to extraordinary circumstances, families do not wish to have a Mass, they should consult with the parish priest before making arrangements with a funeral director. If there is serious reason to have no Mass, The Order of Christian Funerals states that the service without a Mass is “ordinarily” to be celebrated in the parish church. (OCF #350)

There is an emphasis on the baptism of the deceased since it is through baptism in Jesus that each person receives the promise of eternal life. The white pall draped over the casket, the holy water and the Easter candle are symbols of Christ’s life which is bestowed through the waters of baptism.

Requests for secular music cannot be accommodated during the Mass since the very nature of the Mass requires that the lyrics of the songs “express the mystery of the Lord’s suffering, death and triumph over death.” (OCF #30)

The readings for Mass are to be taken from the Bible. The family may choose the readings but they may not be from any source other than Sacred Scripture.

The Order of Christian Funerals prohibits a eulogy in the context of Mass. ” A brief homily based on the readings is always given after the gospel reading at the funeral liturgy . . . but there is never to be a eulogy” (OCF # 27). While a eulogy is intended to recall and even praise the deceased, a homily is directed to helping all who are gathered to understand the mystery of God’s love and how the mystery of Jesus’ victorious death and resurrection were present in the life of the deceased and are present in our lives as well.

The Rite of Committal

“The rite of committal, the conclusion of the funeral rites, is celebrated at the grave, tomb, or crematorium and may be used for burial at sea.” (OCF #512) Prayers are offered to commit the body of the deceased to its final resting place. When the body has been or will be cremated, appropriate adaptions are made to the prayers of committal and signs of farewell.

Cremation

In 1984, the Roman Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments granted permission to the Church in Canada for the funeral liturgy, including the Funeral Mass, to be celebrated with the cremated remains of the deceased person present. This is permissible when the choice of cremation is not inspired by motives contrary to Christian teaching and when the bishop of the diocese gives permission.

At the funeral Mass, the cremated remains, in a dignified container, are placed on a small table provided for this purpose. The liturgy concludes with the final commendation and the subsequent interment of the remains. The Church asks that in keeping with a spirit of reverence, the cremated remains be buried in a grave or entombed in a mausoleum or niche provided for this purpose. (National Liturgy Office, “Catholics and Cremation,” 1998.)

Archdiocese of Toronto 1998

For more information on burial within our Catholic Cemetery, please call St. Mary’s Cemetery